Integrity is not like clothes you take out of the closet and wear on a holiday. Confidence is not something you give and take with plus and minus signs attached, depending if the sum will or will not be in your favor. If someone wants to own a mortgage on your heart, they’re probably not someone to bank on. They say, “God is in the details,” but so is context. Like a good story, it is the context things are told in which rings the bells.